I have experienced this for a while now. Having kids and a marriage for 6 years plus. I was the first to marry, to have kids and a full time job. But I was still 22. I wanted it all though, and thank god that my husband and I don't suffocate each other. Sometimes I wonder how some couples would deal with what I have dealt with. The balancing act. I swear that's when it gets real. When you add a second one.... It gets more real. See people will watch one kid... But it's very hard to find anyone with patience to take care of a newborn and a toddler. My mom and in laws have been the best. But there's only enough time for couple time. We wouldn't want a night out away with a bunch of other people. So what is a best friend? I still have a friend in my life since I was 5. We barely talk. But web I need her and she needs me.... We are there. That's what a best friend is to me. A holder of secrets. A person who you can be absolutely honest with and not care that they will judge you. Sometimes we tell people things and we ask ourselves why we did because you notice they think they are better than you now. You can't tell everyone your weaknesses. When you are married & have kids there is hardly anytime to see your best friends more than once a week. A normal person doesn't. My prioritys are my kids , hubby and intermediate family. Im so thankful I have best friends that understand this!!! A best friend is a loyal person who you can tell anything to and feel relief. They save you and help you through. Spending Time has nothing to do with it anymore as an adult. Do you agree?
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